The Eight Priorities
A Priority List
If we put the most important things into our life first, then the many other things will fit around them. If we put the many other things into our life first, then some of the most important things will not fit. To live like Christ, we must live according to the priorities he established.
1. Time with the Lord …
To know Him through His Word and prayer.
Look it up!
God’s Word: Psalm 119:105; John 8:31-32; Ephesians 6:10-17; Colossians 3:16; 2 Timothy 3:16-17; Hebrews 4:12.
Prayer: Matthew 6:9-13; 7:7-11; Luke 18:1; Eph 6:18; 1 Thessalonians 5:17; Hebrews 4:16; James 1:5; 4:2; 5:13-16.
2. Time with Spouse …
To make radiant
To promote health and strength
To foster love
To cherish
Look it up! Ephesians 5:22-28; Titus 2:4-5; 1 Peter 3:1-7.
3. Time with Children …
To train in God’s Word and in godliness.
Look it up! Proverbs 6:20; Ephesians 6:4; 1 Timothy 5:4 ff; Titus 2:4-5.
4. Time with Parents …
To learn, love, and grow.
Look it up! Proverbs 6:20; Ephesians 6:1-3; 1 Timothy 5:4.
5. Time at Work …
To gain material provision
To witness about Christ
Look it up! Proverbs 14:23; Ephesians 4:28; Colossians 3:23-24; 1 Thessalonians 2:9; 2 Thessalonians 3:10; 1 Timothy 5:8
6. Time with Saved People …
To build up others
To be build up
Look it up! 1 Cor 12:7; Ephesians 4:15-16; Galatians 6:1; Hebrews 10:24-25.
7. Time with Unsaved People …
To witness in word and deed
Look it up! Proverbs 11:30; Matthew 28:19; 1 Thessalonians 1:9-10; Philippians 1:18.
8. Time at Rest …
To get refreshed in order to continue doing God’s work well
Look it up! Genesis 2:2; Exodus 23:12; Mark 6:30-31.
A Priority Parable
One day an expert in time management was speaking to a group of business students and, to drive home a point, used an illustration those students will never forget.
As he stood in front of the group of high powered overachievers he said, “Okay, time for a quiz.” Then he pulled out a one-gallon, wide mouthed Mason jar and set it on the table in front of him. Then he produced about a dozen fist-sized rocks and carefully placed them, one at a time, into the jar.
When the jar was filled to the top and not more rocks would fit inside, he asked, “Is this jar full?” Everyone in the class said, “Yes.” Then he said, “Really?”
He reached under the table and pulled out a bucket of gravel. Then he dumped some gravel in and shook the jar causing pieces of gravel to shook the jar causing pieces of gravel to work themselves down into the space between the big rocks. Then he asked the group once more, “Is the jar full?”
By this time the class was on to him. “Probably not,” one of them answered.
“Good!” he replied.
He reached under the table and brought out a bucket of sand. He started dumping the sand in the jar and it went into all of the spaces left between the rocks and the gravel. Once more he asked the question, “Is this jar full?”
“No!” the class shouted. Once again he said, “Good.” Then he grabbed a pitcher of water and began to pour it in until the jar was filled to the brim.
Then he looked at the class and asked, “What is the point of this illustration?”
One eager beaver raised his hand and said, “The point is, no matter how full your schedule is, if you try really hard you can always fit some more things in it!”
“No,” the speaker replied, “that’s not the point. The truth this illustration teaches us is: if you don’t put the big rocks in first, you’ll never get them in at all.”
What are the “big rocks” in your life? Your children … Your loved ones … Your education … Your dreams … A worthy cause … Teaching or mentoring others … Doing things that you love … Time for yourself … Your health … Your significant other.
Remember to put these BIG ROCKS in first or you’ll never get them in at all. If you sweat the little stuff (the gravel, the sand) then you’ll fill your life with little things you worry about that don’t really matter, and you’ll never have the real quality time you need to spend on the big, important stuff (the big rocks). So, tonight, or in the morning, when you are reflecting on this short story, ask yourself this question: What are the “big rocks” in my life? Then, put those in your jar first.
(From Stephen R. Covey)